Wednesday, August 10, 2016

Life's Realizations

I never thought that I would be sharing this kind of story to everyone, but thanks to my co-LAmb who motivated me to do this…

I agree when she said that being a DLSU graduate doesn’t guarantee you of a job. I started working as a Receptionist on a contractual status under an agency, and since the company is based in Laguna, I was a minimum wage earner--on a daily rate basis.   After a month, there was a vacancy in one of the departments, and I was the one who was considered by the department head to replace the personnel who resigned.  I really contemplated about the offer and even asked for the advice of my family and my seniors before I respectfully turned it down. However, it seemed that the department head did not appreciate the reason why I turned it down, and she confronted me and attacked me with mean words… and the most remarkable statement she said? “Hanggang receptionist ka nalang.” (You will always be a receptionist.)

Two months after the confrontation, I handled credit and collection, then later on, Purchasing.  And on the 5th month of my employment, I handled Recruitment and Training, and that started my career as HR Practitioner.

Fast forward 11 years, I went through a lot, and had my fair share of ups and downs, and sometimes there would be crying moments… but what is more important is I have learned a lot.

It doesn’t matter how you started, what is important is how you dream, and your efforts to reach for that dream.

Along the journey, you’ll meet different kinds of people—friends, colleagues, acquaintance who will be your mentor, adviser, shoulder to cry on, and if you are unlucky… you’ll bump into someone who would be your life’s worst nightmare and will break you at some point of your life.  THANK THEM.  They are the ones who will build you.  They will be your support system or will drive you to push harder.

Treasure the people you’ll meet who will give you that slap of reality.. because not everything in life should be sugar-coated.

At work, you will encounter conflicts, you will be scolded and be told to at times, but these are learning points of your career… and at the end of the day, it is just work.

Get out of your comfort zone, with this, you will discover that there are a lot of things that you didn’t think that you can do… and you’ll never know this unless you try.

And now, as I look back, I sometimes wonder… if I did not accept the job as a receptionist, what would have happened to me? If I remained as the fresh from La Salle graduate who was very idealistic… will I be able to achieve what I have achieved now?

And in the past 11 years… I know I have accomplished a lot of things

Learned Credit and Collection even though I hate numbers… as well as Purchasing.

Even though I am not a Psychology graduate, I excel in Recruitment and in reading people’s behavior and an accomplished trainer too.

I am a certified auditor of 4 systems namely ISO 9001 Quality Management System, ISO 14001 Environmental Management System, OHSAS 18001 Occupational Health & Safety Management System, and ISO TS 16949 Technical Specifications for the Automotive Industries.

 A safety practitioner and prime-mover.  And one of the leaders of the team who leads safety initiatives and considered as number 1 in safety in our corporation—globally.

Has represented my current employer in South Asia in Quality and Safety Conferences.

Represented Philippines in South Asia competition and earning the Champion title, and eventually represented South Asia for Global presentation.

Commended as one of the excellent presenters and trainer for improvement activities.

A mentor of champions—led two (2) champion teams in South Asia competition, and earning them a slot in Global presentation, wherein one of which is commended as Excellence Awardee.

Out of the box initiatives has put the company to a whole new level of interactive learning.

Passed law school… without review… though this has temporarily on halt, I will still pursue this on the near future.

…and a lot more.  And this won’t stop me in accomplishing more.

love lots ❤️ Xiel

Saturday, March 12, 2016

Exploring Ayutthaya

Happy to be back in Thailand, and to a new place to discover... Ayutthaya!




Friday, February 26, 2016

Happy 10th Birthday in Heaven



My Facebook entry on February 26, 2016

It has been 10 years today (tonight at 8:20 pm to be exact)... and it still pains me every 26th of February. How cliché it may be, but yes, I got my heart broken on the month of love.  I just can't imagine how you may have looked like today... Probably, still standing tall at 5'7" and still sporting that long black hair and wearing that big smile of yours.  Oh, how I miss you. I miss our long talks and banters... I miss how you scold me for being so loud and childish. I miss how allergic you are at home on weekends, and how you always wants to go to the mall.  I miss how we always trick other people to guess who is the older Balagso since I am the small and kiti-kiti, and you are the demure and mature one.  I miss my number one supporter.  Things would have been different today.. a lot more different if you are still are here.  And until now, it still breaks my heart that you are not here. But as I have always told our friends and mine, I was the one who was not ready of losing you... and you were the one who was ready to meet Our Creator. Happy 10th Birthday in Heaven our dear Ecathrene. We will love you 'til pigs learn how to fly. Sending my hugs and kisses up there! Te amaré por siempre 😘